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Calm, Gentle Dental Care

Dentist for Nervous Patients in Thames Ditton

Many people feel anxious about visiting the dentist – whether from a bad past experience, fear of pain or simply not knowing what to expect. At Thames Dental & Skin, Our Dentist specialise in caring for nervous adults and older patients in Thames Ditton, helping you feel safe, listened to and in control at every visit. 

Or call us on 020 8398 9466

Who this page is for

You may find this page helpful if:

  • You feel anxious or lose sleep before dental appointments
  • You’ve had a difficult experience in the past and now avoid the dentist
  • You are scared of the dentist but need treatment you’ve been putting off
  • You feel embarrassed about your teeth or worried what the dentist will say
  • You are helping an older relative who finds dental visits overwhelming

Dental anxiety and dentophobia are very common – many adults put off treatment for years because of fear of dentistry, not because they don’t care about their teeth.

Our gentle dentists in Surrey

Our clinicians combine advanced expertise with a calm, reassuring manner so nervous patients can access the care they need at their own pace.

Each nervous‑patient consultation at Thames Dental & Skin includes:

Dr Theodora Bravis, principal dentist and founder of Thames Dental & Skin Clinic in Thames Ditton, Surrey, smiling confidently at the camera, showcasing her expertise in providing high-quality dental care and facial aesthetic treatments.

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How we help nervous patients feel in control

We follow a simple, predictable process so appointments feel calmer and more manageable. 

Start with a conversation

Your first visit can be a relaxed consultation rather than a full examination if you prefer. We talk through your concerns, past experiences and triggers, and agree what would help you feel more comfortable.​

Agree your pace and signals

Together we set clear hand signals so you can pause or stop at any time, and we agree how much detail you want at each stage. Knowing you can stay in control often makes the biggest difference for nervous dentist patients.

Gentle, pain‑minimising dentistry

We use modern techniques, numbing gels and careful local anaesthetic to keep treatment as comfortable as possible. We move slowly, check in frequently and never rush you, whether it is a check‑up, hygiene visit or restorative work.

Build confidence over time

Many nervous patients start with short, simple appointments and gradually move towards the treatment they really need. We celebrate each step with you, helping dental visits become routine rather than something to fear.

male patient receiving a health and wellness consultation from Dr. Bravis at Thames Dental & Skin Clinic in Thames Ditton.

Extra support we can offer

Depending on your level of dental anxiety, we may recommend: 

If appropriate, we can also discuss options for sedation dentistry with trusted partners, particularly for patients with severe fear of the dentist who need more involved treatment. 

Or call us on 020 8398 9466

Hundreds Of Happy Patients

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Aldene de Vos
2 years ago
Excellent service, highly recommend. Dr Bravis and her team are just wonderful! I have been very happy with all dental work and skin treatments! Thank you!
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Harry Peak
2 years ago
I have been a patient of Thames Dental since January 2021. I have some very complex dentistry work completed, and i am beyond ecstatic about the results Dr Bravis and her team have transformed my smile and my dental health. From booking in to treatment i have found all the staff extremely polite and helpful everyone has excellent personal skills and make you feel comfortable throughout appointments and are careful not to rush, the team have kept me up to date about my appointments and my progress and offered different payment plans to help. I cannot recommend enough Dr Bravis and the team at Thames Dental.
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Emma Smith
2 years ago
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Elina Pettifer
2 years ago
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Hannah Marlin
2 years ago
Dr Bravis is a fantastic Dr with ample knowledge on dentistry, nutrition and aesthetics. . . I cannot recommend her enough. I now have a bright white smile I am very happy with. Thank you Dr Bravis
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Nick B
2 years ago
Very efficient and friendly service, thank you!
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Jonathan Bond
2 years ago
Informative and efficient. Thank you!
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B James
2 years ago
Just had my first appointment today for me and my two children. The dentist was great with my kids and put them at ease, also thorough check up of my teeth
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Paul Lessing
2 years ago
Everything has gone well.
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J S
3 years ago
Excellent service. Very happy with dentist. Dr Bravas takes time to explain everything and makes me feel at ease. She is very personable as is receptionist Tina and other staff. Would definitely recommend this dentist.
I wanted to take a moment to express not only my gratitude as a long-time patient of Dr. Theodora Bravis at Thames Dental Care but also to share the collective excitement and satisfaction of my entire family.

From the very first visit to the most recent appointments, Dr. Bravis has consistently delivered unparalleled dental care that has not only kept me coming back but has also garnered the trust and admiration of my whole family. As a long-time patient since the opening of her clinic, I've had the privilege of witnessing the growth of Thames Dental Care into a premier dental practice, and Dr. Bravis's commitment to excellence has never wavered.

What truly sets Dr. Bravis apart is her ability to extend her personalized care to each member of my family. Her warmth and genuine concern for our well-being have made dental visits not just routine appointments but positive experiences that we look forward to. Dr. Bravis has successfully created an environment where even the youngest members of my family feel at ease and excited about maintaining their oral health.

The state-of-the-art facilities and the friendly, professional staff - Andrea, Tina and others, contribute to the overall positive atmosphere that has impressed not just me but my whole family. The collective sentiment is one of gratitude for having found a dental home where expertise, compassion, and a family-friendly approach are seamlessly integrated.

I wholeheartedly recommend Dr. Theodora Bravis and Thames Dental Care to individuals and families alike. Thank you, Dr. Bravis, for consistently exceeding our expectations and for being the cornerstone of our family's dental health journey!
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Gorana Jordanova
3 years ago
Very knowledgeable, gentle and sweetest dentinst I've ever had. Not only Dr Bravis is nice but the whole team working in the dentistry. If you are in any way uncomfortable or having a bad experience with dentists, this is a place to go.
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Liz Lightfoot
3 years ago
The best dental practice ever! And I speak with many decades of experience of less talented dentists. Dr Bravis is not only very skilled and well qualified, she is also gentle and engaging and never hurts and so I no longer dread visits to the dentist and am prepared to travel from central London. I’ve had two dental implants and my front teeth built up recently and all went very well. Andrea, the dental nurse, was very kind and reassuring when my jaw was being drilled and Tina on reception is very helpful and knowledgeable. I can highly recommend. You won’t be disappointed.
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Pip Vanhinsbergh
3 years ago
The whole team has been so friendly and approachable at every appointment and quick to respond to my queries. Dr Bravis has done a super job for me with my Invisalign treatment. She has always been honest about saying when I don’t need work done too which I feel is not always what happens in some private sectors. I value and trust her opinions.
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SZ Tech
3 years ago
I can’t recommend this dental practice highly enough. Dr Bravis and her team are ultra professional, polite and have immense knowledge of their profession. I have had a lot of dental problems over the years and I am delighted to say that I have finally achieved stability after having broken, painful teeth for so many years. Thank you for giving me my confidence back!

Nervous older patients

Older patients sometimes have additional concerns such as mobility, medical conditions or previous difficult experiences with dentistry. We allow extra time, offer help with forms and movement around the practice, and use cushions and supports so the dental chair is as comfortable as possible. We can also liaise with family members or carers when needed, making it easier to organise care and keep older patients eating comfortably, speaking clearly and smiling with confidence. 

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Elderly woman smiling with her new dentures by Dr. Theodora Bravis at Thames Dental & Skin in Thames Ditton, Surrey
A young girl receives personalised attention and education on proper oral hygiene techniques from Dr Theodora Bravis, a skilled dentist at Thames Dental & Skin Clinic in Thames Ditton, Surrey, emphasising the clinic's commitment to promoting lifelong dental health in children.

Nervous children and teens

If your child is anxious about the dentist, our team uses gentle explanations, praise and small “wins” to build confidence over time. Short, positive visits – even just sitting in the chair or counting teeth – can help them feel at ease before any treatment is needed. When they are ready for regular care, we can guide you straight to our dedicated children’s dentistry page for ongoing check‑ups and preventive support. 

Dental anxiety is far more common than most patients realise, and it is never something to be embarrassed about. Our approach is built around giving patients control — knowing that they can stop at any point, that nothing will happen without their understanding and agreement, and that we have all the time they need. Starting that first conversation is often the hardest step, and we try to make it as easy as possible.
Dr Theodora Bravis
Dr Theodora Bravi Founder & Specialist Prosthodontist

FAQs

Yes — dental anxiety is extremely common and affects people of all ages and backgrounds. Studies suggest that somewhere between 20 and 30% of adults experience meaningful anxiety around dental visits. You are not alone, and you will not be judged at Thames Dental & Skin.

Our team is experienced in caring for nervous patients, and we have adapted our approach specifically to make anxious individuals feel safe and in control. Whatever your past experiences with dentistry, we are interested in understanding them so that we can work with you rather than around you.

Yes — we work with patients across the full spectrum of dental anxiety, including those who would describe themselves as having a genuine phobia (dentophobia) and who may not have seen a dentist for many years. For patients with severe anxiety, a step-by-step approach is taken: beginning with a conversation, moving at your pace, and building trust before any clinical examination begins.

For patients where anxiety is so significant that it cannot be managed by communication and a calm environment alone, we can discuss sedation options with trusted clinical partners — these are discussed at an appropriate stage once we understand your needs. We do not offer IV sedation in-house but will signpost you appropriately.

Absolutely — we offer an off-the-chair initial visit for nervous patients, where you simply meet the clinician and the team in a relaxed setting, ask any questions you have, and see the practice before any examination takes place. There is no pressure to sit in the dental chair or agree to anything at this visit.

Many nervous patients find that this first meeting is transformative — it replaces the unknown with a familiar face and environment, which significantly reduces anxiety at subsequent visits. Please call us and ask specifically for a nervous patient introductory appointment.

We use a range of techniques to support nervous patients. These include allowing extra appointment time so there is never any feeling of being rushed, using clear step-by-step explanations before anything is done, a stop signal (such as raising a hand) that is always respected immediately, taking regular comfort breaks, and working at the patient's pace throughout.

Dr Bravi developed the practice's approach to anxious patients with the understanding that trust is built incrementally. She never attempts more in a single appointment than the patient is comfortable with, and every member of the team is briefed on each patient's anxiety level and preferences before they are seen.

Please do not let embarrassment prevent you from seeking care. The team at Thames Dental & Skin never judge the condition of a patient's teeth, whatever the reason for any neglect. We see patients who have avoided dentistry for many years, often because of anxiety, and they are always welcomed without comment or criticism.

Our role is to assess where you are now, explain clearly what is needed, and work out a plan that is manageable for you — both clinically and in terms of cost and commitment. The first appointment is the hardest to make, and once it is done, most patients find subsequent visits much easier.

Simply call us and let the team know that you are anxious about dental visits — or that you would like to book as a nervous patient. This allows us to allocate a longer, unhurried appointment, assign a clinician experienced in managing dental anxiety, and make any necessary adjustments to your experience before you arrive.

You can also use our online contact form or email if calling feels like too much at first. We will respond without any pressure, and we will follow your lead as to how quickly and at what pace you would like to proceed. A dental check-up is typically the most appropriate first clinical appointment once you feel ready.

This is one of the most common situations we encounter with nervous patients, and it is one we approach practically and without criticism. However long it has been, what matters now is getting a clear picture of your oral health and making a manageable plan.

A thorough examination will identify any clinical priorities. Dr Bravi always addresses the most urgent issues first and stages treatment in a way that feels manageable — not overwhelming. Many patients in this situation find that the reality of their dental situation is better than they feared: anxiety often leads to worst-case assumptions that are not borne out by the examination.

Yes — our approach to nervous patients applies across all the dental treatments we offer, including routine check-ups, hygiene appointments, restorative work such as fillings and crowns, and more involved treatments such as dental implants. We plan treatment in stages that take into account your level of anxiety, and we never attempt more in a single appointment than you are comfortable with.

For patients who have been managing with missing teeth or broken restorations because they have been unable to face treatment, implants and restorative work have helped many to regain both function and confidence — at a pace they felt in control of.

Yes — we are experienced in caring for older patients and those who may have mobility, access, or health considerations that make a standard dental appointment more complex. We have adapted our facilities and approach to accommodate patients who need extra time, physical assistance, or adjustments to the standard dental chair position.

If you or a family member have specific physical needs or health conditions that may affect your dental visit, please let us know when you call and we will ensure the right arrangements are in place before you arrive.

A nervous patient appointment is adapted in several important ways. Additional time is allocated — typically double the standard slot — to ensure nothing feels rushed. The approach is more conversational: the clinician will explain each step before acting, check in regularly, and respect a stop signal at any point.

Standard dental appointments follow an efficient clinical rhythm that works well for most patients but can feel overwhelming for those with anxiety. Our nervous patient approach prioritises the patient's psychological comfort alongside clinical care, with the understanding that a successful visit today makes every subsequent visit easier.

Yes — Thames Dental & Skin is based in Thames Ditton and regularly sees nervous and anxious patients from across the surrounding area, including Kingston upon Thames, Esher, Surbiton, Walton-on-Thames, Molesey, Hinchley Wood, and Long Ditton. Patients sometimes travel further when they have been unable to find a practice that meets their needs locally.

If you have tried other practices and found the experience difficult, please do not let that stop you from getting in touch. We would welcome the opportunity to show you a different approach.

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